I have just been reading (in Dutch) sections
of a letter between Teresa of Avila and her friend Luisa de la Cerda. It is in
the present issue of “Karmelimpuls”. What especially struck me was the way she
wrote about suffering.
She tells her friend that relationships in this world
are so different: “Those, who could help
you, won’t do it and I, who wants to assist you, can’t do it”. She adds
that “we mortals have to endure those and
even worse situations” Try
not to worry. Think of how much depends on your health. These days mine has
been very bad. It would have been even worse, if I, on your insistence, had not
received the good care in your home.” She acknowledges that she needed this
insistence, because the scorching heat of the sun had made her pain so much worse.
By her arrival in Toledo, Teresa immediately had to undergo two blood-lettings,
and was not able to move or turn in bed because of the pain in her shoulders and
neck.
This weekend, the parish is celebrating our
annual Parish Day to commemorate Our Lady of Mount Carmel. We know that
there was much suffering in Our Lady's life too. She offered them up, together with
her Son, to the Father, and for the salvation of all.
Like Our Lady and Teresa, our sufferings don’t have to be in vain. That thought helps us to bear them more easily.
Like Our Lady and Teresa, our sufferings don’t have to be in vain. That thought helps us to bear them more easily.
Fr Piet Wijngaard, O.Carm.